Does online dating work guys

Sounding generic The way to a woman’s heart is making her feel worthy of the same message you’ve sent a dozen other women, right?

I tell all my single guy friends to watch out for online dating.

It is a sad, soul-crushing place where good guys go to die a slow death by way of ignored messages and empty inboxes.

Alan Montecillo logged on to Ok Cupid and started filling out his profile.

He wrote down his height (6 feet), listed his interests (podcasts, basketball, reading) and included photos of himself outdoors.

I admit that I am also guilty of foregoing the nice guy in a crisp, clean shirt for the ruggedly handsome deadbeat with no medical insurance. Why do so many women complain about not finding a good guy, when they purposely reject every mediocre-looking Prince Charming that comes their way? A lot of people start to agree with a certain attitude and mind set, because there are people or groups of people who can confirm that they themselves have experienced the same thing.

The surprising thing, however, is that majority of the female population apparently have the same problems.

I tell all my single girlfriends to give online dating a try. Your inbox will fill with notes from 19-year-olds in the ‘burbs, 40-somethings who find your taste in music “refreshing,” addled idiots writing “id fck u,” and a handful of age-appropriate, nice-looking guys who can string some sentences together and like to cook.

You set up a profile, pick some cute photos, write something witty about the things that you love (Beyonce, Hillary Clinton, Battlestar Galactica), list some books you like, and then sit back, kick your feet up, and wait for the messages to roll in.

” or “Did he not think it was worth his time to read my profile? And please, dear lord, do not actually copy and paste your messages.

While you may think it looks like you’ve typed “Hey, how’s it going” or even “You seem really down to earth,” we can tell all you’ve actually typed is “Control C” and “Control V.” Even if we can’t, you’re at some point bound to send your template to the same person twice and get caught like the unfortunate fellow below — or worse, you’ll send your supposedly individualized message to two women who know each other, like the guy who asked my roommate and I both if we were Brazilian. Commenting on our appearances Yes, we all want to find someone attractive and feel attractive ourselves.